What are friends? who are your friends? who are not? Time proves it all

Before SPM...
A : Mannn i can't wait till SPM is over!
B : Yea mannn.. got lotsa things to catch up!
C : Get done with SPM 1st la den onli talk bout it...
( too late.. A and B had everything planned adey... yoga, singapore, pool,shopping,karaoke, everythin dat u can think of la)
After SPM...
B : woohoo! can have fun adey!! wait till my fren's finish their papers.
(wait wait wait n wait)
Everybody finished SPM..
B : Hey! lets do this.. lets do that..
A : malas laaa
C : Sure y not..
(B and C went out..)
B : oo last time planned thursday go pool..
C : oo yea oo.. almost terlupa.. A planned it.. ask if its still on..
A : hmmm nvm la.. malas la wanna pool
K : Yo.. got BBQ wanna join? (asked A, B, and C)
B n C : sure y not
A : nehh.. malas la
B : eh when wanna go out get prom dress?
A : someother day la.. malas la..
B : hey wanna go edu fair?
A : whoops sorry i got party. (which also means a no)
B : its okay.. so used to hearing a No.
A : haha.. got to get used to it girl..
B : yea everybd have their own lifes now.. all those must hang out, keep in touch, stay loved all.. bullshit..it'll all change into.. malas laa, no time laa, some other day la...
A : v've always been like dat.. v need space.. have our own life.. i've got my xxx frens and N to layan.. you have to get used to it.. you have your J fren too..

yes i do have my J fren, i have my other friends too, i at one point put the few of YOU.. lilchickas(part of them) to priority. For those fun v spent together..
just because of mood swings(as if others don't have) n malas-ness u'll turn everything down..
HELLOO!! if you realize v r all tearing apart! tepuk sebelah tangan tidak berbunyi.. if v dun take the effort to stay in touch everything will b gone! i mean GONE! all those fun r just memories...
or mayb u juz take us as ure "my have fun SCHOOL frens".. out of school.. dun think so i need them nemore..

really dunno wats happening.. is this the normal after SPM kinda life? everybd tearing apart? Started your friendships in school n left it back in school.. forgotten to keep it with you while you leave school dat day? r v juz stepping stones for each other to survive in high school?

Whats happening??